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Parents rejection of the child, though unintentional, is also shown in various ways, like physical neglect, denial of love and affection, lack of interest in the child’s activities, interests and achievement, harsh or inconsistent punishment, failure to spend time with the child, or any kind of a activity of apparent which keeps child away.

Parent’s rejection can be partial or complete, passive or active and subtly or overtly heartless. To keep the child in a crche (pre-school, etc.) is also a form of rejection.

Rejection manifests in the child in the form of excessive fear, shyness, aggressiveness, thumb sucking, bed-wetting, depression, temper tantrums, lying, stealing, slow, conscience development, low self-esteem, feeling of insecurity, loneness, jealousy, anxiety and inability to give & receive love.

All this happiness in the subconscious level of mind i.e. automatically & child can not help, resist or prevent their manifeastation in his behavior or personality. Parental rejection is a major reason why adolescents decide to run away form home.

Not let’s come to know to the source i.e. causes of rejection as follows.

Causes of REJECTION:

It would appear that a large number of parents, who neglects their children have themselves been the victims of parental rejection (coz, parents sow, so do children reap & we are what we repeatedly do). And even the children, who face the parental rejection don’t accept their parents when the latter grow old. The root thing I want to tell that it is not a one way behavior. That is why the lack of love has been referred as a communicable disease.

A child may be neglected without being rejected. In other words, when parents are very much busy with their work, they neglect their own children.

*** Maternal deprivation causes faulty development. ***

When infants are deprived of maternal stimulation as a consequences of separation from the mother e.g. working women or due to lack of adequate mothering in the home. Faculty development has been observed obliviously.

When the mother devotes little attention to the child and In the process of neglect or reject him, the effects of such masked deprivation may be more devastation than any one can imagine.

Rejection or punishing mothers may cause tense, unsatisfied & negative behavior among their infants even at very early age. In case of early &prolonged deprivation, the damage to the infant may be irreversible or only partially reversible. Those mother who takes the part in the kitty parties and the inflict separation on their child infants, and those who keep the child in a crche must be careful.

Remember: A Loving emotionally responsive parent will invoke positive, cooperative, loving responses form the child.

Thanks for your time consideration

Nilesh Gore

www.brendynamics.com/gr

About The Author

Name : NIlesh B Gore

Profession : Graphologist(Hndwriting Analyst) & SW. Eng.

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We send our best wishes for holidays, birthdays, get well, weddings, and such. Yet, why are we wishing for anything when we could really bless them in prayer?

We go into a state of panic when our child is a few minutes late, as if our worry is going to get them home any faster than trusting God. Satan must get a good laugh.

We receive aggravation on every side, as Satan is alive and well on Sundays. Thinking we don’t need God’s help and no one will be the wiser, we go it alone; with our painted smiles, polished attire, and frustrations neatly tucked … then take it out on our waitress.

When our spouse is out of town; we receive comfort in a friend sleeping over, us staying at mom’s, or one of the kids climbing into bed … as if any person present can make us safer than we already are. God is our protection. Though, maybe we’d rather believe the dark will get us.

Instead of asking the one who owns it all; we spend money we don’t have on things we think we have to have, get our finances all messed up, then cry, “Help!”

We sleep in on Sunday morning, thinking it will make our day brighter. Instead, it makes our week longer.

We prefer to exhaust ourselves with endless deeds than to slow down, spend time with God, and ask Him what He wants us to do.

We work all the overtime we can get, steal God’s tithe, and then think we’re going to financially get ahead.

Believing our doubts and doubting our beliefs; were we to consider the things we do, we might find them odd, too … then look for more desirable alternatives.

Someone once said, “When we feed our faith, our doubts will starve to death.”

© by Joyce C. Lock
http://my.homewithgod.com/blessingsandlessons/
This writing may be used in its entirety, with credits in tact,
for non-profit ministering purposes.

In addition to being a published author and poet, Joyce C. Lock created the religion column, “Christianity Made Simple” for Peru Daily Tribune, continues to write inspirational articles for area newspapers, and shares further in online and e-mail ministries.

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